There was a Facebook message from his ex-girlfriend.I stewed about it all day and then last night I told him I was thinking about how he texts his exes and told him that I felt like it was cheating.Figuring this was probably just an easy fix, on July 31, I deleted the app, restarted my device, and redownloaded the app. Please check your connection and try again" when I try to login.I am still not able to login, even on another device that previously worked.What would co-parenting even look like with an ocean between us?It almost seems kinder not to tell him, but it seems immoral.
Am I obligated to inform him, knowing he doesn’t want children?
I told him it hurt me badly and I asked him when the last time he had texted either of them.
He said he couldn’t remember the last time he talked to his ex-girlfriend but he had recent contact from his ex-wife.
I’m also afraid he will be angry or suggest I did it on purpose.
Is there a way to tell him and also assure him that he need have no part in it, that he is under no obligation and I would even prefer he were not involved, without being a dick about it?